Death is inevitable in life. Along the journey of success there is a high probability that one of your loved ones is going to die. It’s unfortunate, but death is inescapable, one day we are all going to have our day. Wow, what a great way to start an article haha.I think I made it pretty darn depressing.
Nonetheless, we humans are creatures of emotion, therefore a tragedy involving the death of a loved one will have huge effects on us psychologically. Some people may be dealing with this right now. I think everyone of us have experienced losing a loved one. It’s dependent on how much life you have lived on this planet, but you can probably relate in one sense or another.
Death of a loved one creates catastrophic effects. This is important, since it will keep most people from chasing their dreams and instead they fall into a sense of depression. It’s hard to get over a loved ones death let alone continuing to chase success during the process. It doesn’t have to be this way though. In fact you can use this to fuel you if you just perceive the death in another light.
Once somebody dies the people around that individual that loved them dearly often become paralyzed (not literally). It’s really hard for them to function and perform day to day activities. The things that used to come as second nature such as walking and dressing yourself become almost impossible. This is how majority of the people handle the death of a loved one. It’s a common practice, which involves tons of mourning for that whole that is now in your heart. It is obvious that mourning is going to ensue after you have lost a loved one. That is unavoidable, but the thing that is important is how quickly we come to copes with the death and accept it and move on. I don’t mean this as in we forget about the individual, hell no. What I mean is, if you want to get over the death of a loved one and continue pursuing success in your life then you simply have to view things like this…
Your loved one is now on your shoulders. You are not only responsible for your success, but now you have to achieve success for them too. All their dreams and aspirations now are put onto your shoulders, you can make them fulfill their dreams by accomplishing yours. Each day they are resting on your shoulders, you are now carrying the load. Therefore it is a must that you move on quickly and start pursuing success. You have to put on for your loved ones. You have to represent for them. They are no longer here, but they are now living through you. As a result, every success you experience in life, they experience. Everything you go through, they go through. Your responsibly is to create the best life for you and your loved ones that are now resting on your shoulders. Don’t let nothing stop you. Once things get tough just remember the smile that used to fill their faces and let that drive up your spirits. It’s a must that you achieve success now, no bullshit, no excuses. You are now responsible for the success of many people. Your loved ones are now on your shoulders and the world is what you are after, represent them, and achieve success…not only for you, but for your loved ones as well.
This mentality shall open up doors for you that you deemed to be impossible. This mentality will make you like a train…fucking unstoppable. Remember how I stated earlier that we humans are creatures of emotion, well once we get our emotions involved in a positive way then its game over for everybody. Success is inevitable. Your motivation will remain at an all time high day in and day out if you just remember that your loved ones are living through you.
This is the way in which I think death should be handled. Too many dreams become shattered once we humans experience the death of a loved one, we simply can’t muster up the courage to continue. But if we apply this mentality then not only can we continue to push on, but success becomes much more likely.